I don't know if this was put here for me to see or not. But since you're complaining about my wife, I feel a need to clarify the situation.
I'm not sure what your experience is with these things, but it's been my experience that complaining to a MUSH about the actions of its wizards is a sigularly fruitless task. At best, the wizards all band together and tell you to screw yourself (politely or not), and at worse, all you do is start (or prolong) internecine conflict and backbiting between the wizards.
Honestly, it's been my experience that the only time that one wizard will help you with a complaint versus another wizard is when they already have a bone to pick with the offender.
Secondly, I don't know if it's how you meant to come off, but you did sound very confrontational in your replies to Vesh. "I'm also not going to comment on this thread further because I don't think I have anything more to say that is constructive or useful." and "Okay - one more comment. There is also the thought of asking what was going on before Ellie logged on." made it sound like you considered the situation her fault and her overreaction.
If I had to guess, I'd say that those are what made up her mind, and not any prejudgement of you. I haven't asked her about it, but I"ll admit that your responses got -my- hackles up, and I wasn't even involved in the situation.
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Date: 2004-11-21 08:53 pm (UTC)I'm not sure what your experience is with these things, but it's been my experience that complaining to a MUSH about the actions of its wizards is a sigularly fruitless task. At best, the wizards all band together and tell you to screw yourself (politely or not), and at worse, all you do is start (or prolong) internecine conflict and backbiting between the wizards.
Honestly, it's been my experience that the only time that one wizard will help you with a complaint versus another wizard is when they already have a bone to pick with the offender.
Secondly, I don't know if it's how you meant to come off, but you did sound very confrontational in your replies to Vesh. "I'm also not going to comment on this thread further because I don't think I have anything more to say that is constructive or useful." and "Okay - one more comment. There is also the thought of asking what was going on before Ellie logged on." made it sound like you considered the situation her fault and her overreaction.
If I had to guess, I'd say that those are what made up her mind, and not any prejudgement of you. I haven't asked her about it, but I"ll admit that your responses got -my- hackles up, and I wasn't even involved in the situation.